Transforming Masculinities A Personal Narrative of a Continuing Journey

Abstract

This article presents the personal narrative of Prabu Deepan, a pioneer of the "Transforming Masculinities" initiative by Tearfund UK. The initiative aims to address and reduce sexual and gender-based violence by challenging harmful gender norms and fostering equitable relationships. Through workshops and community dialogues, the program involves men and women as "gender champions" who, alongside faith leaders, promote positive social norms within communities. Prabu reflects on his transformative journey from a childhood impacted by violence and displacement to a leadership role that encourages compassion, accountability, and gender justice. His story highlights faith's role in shaping healthier masculinities, drawing inspiration from Jesus Christ as a model of compassionate leadership. Additionally, Prabu’s journey emphasizes the importance of supportive relationships, personal accountability, and community engagement in promoting gender equality and breaking cycles of violence.